Monday, August 17, 2009

Sex toys for men

In the paper today was a survey stating that searchers found out that almost 45% of Americans used one day or another sextoys, alone or not. It’s a bit confusing or maybe is it because the Egg just appeared, as well as long historical inflatable dolls, the association between sextoys, dildos and games for women comes very quickly. But even though It is discreet and even a bit taboo, men take more and more often the toys of their girlfriend. A manufacturer explained that they conceive toys for women and in the end, men buy them like the “finger” initially made for lesbians. This is a good example. It is a sextoy with the form of a finger made by and for lesbians, named “One” with Its symbolic of Sapphic pleasure and Its form which does not make you think of a man. It fascinates men because they say this sextoy for women and made by women must have something special under its silicone material and also want to add an option to their hand when they caress their girlfriend. Meaning half of the “One” have been bought by men. The least unexpected ? the Rabbit Happy Duo : normally, It is very feminine because this toy is made to stimulate simultaneously the vagina and the clitoris. Yes, but one day a guy bought one to make a present to a (girl)friend who already had one. So the man keeps the toy at home and one day of loneliness and solitude tries it, the prostastics way. In less time than to say it, he became the best seller of this product … for men. The anal pleasure and the stimulation of the prostate is a less and less tabooed hobby and this toy is very well adapted to this pleasure for men. Men motivations are sometimes « hard » to understand : nobody thought that one day a man could choose this toy in front of his woman, stating that he needs prostatic stimulation. Because men do not assume so easily this fact. They don’t always confirm they steal the vibrating bullet of their wife (the most powerful one, stimulating vagina and clitoris) to stimulate the entrance of their anal zone. So, a man, together with a very good (girl)friend of his, recommended this object explaining that he offered it to his girlfriend. But, in front of witnesses, he started to be confused and talked about extraordinary anal orgasm, his explanation was so alive and his eyes almost crying that everyone understood he talked about him. ow some of manufacturers, mostly known for their TV and DVD, understand the impact and start to create high level toys, targeting couples. The idea is probably to make evaluate the idea that those accessories before made for masturbation alone can be integrated in the couple’s sexuality, maybe more classic. Take the « Gigi » for example. It is made to stimulate the G point of the woman but some more clever or curious used it, putting it on the perineum muscle. In this case, the vibrations are transmitted by the flat head and go directly to the prostata in order to stimulate erection and pleasure. A lot of couples buy this toy as a first one and use it together. But, nevertheless, be careful. If, in your couple, you like to play with sex toys, know how to share them or buy more than one. It would be sad during sex play to fight just because the other one wants to keep the toy.

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